“Those who have mastered the art of conversation will so direct the conversation without intention, that all present may have an opportunity of saying something on some subject which specially interests them.”
“The accomplished hostess will never allow a dispute to arise at her table, or for one of the guests to take complete control of the conversation.”
“The art of conversation requires above all a certain degree of self-control, so that we may restrain ourselves in good time from talking too long about things that are of interest to us alone and exclusively.”
“The rules of conversation require that intimate subjects of conversation be avoided. list to data As well as lengthy descriptions of illness or operation. And that one never enter into personal difficulties, shortcomings, or defects in conversation with strangers or casual acquaintances.”
“Straight criticism – whether praising or criticizing – of the qualities, appearance or clothing of those present should be avoided, as should mentioning or asking about prices.”
“That one never contradicts anyone outright; expressions such as: That is not true! or: It is quite different, or: You are wrong! should be avoided at all times.”
We wish all readers of Frankwatching a valuable and conversation-rich 2013!